How Flare works

From being you. To meeting them.

Good connections start with a little honesty, a little curiosity, and a hello that feels natural.

Start your story
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A simple beginning

Your story comes first.

There's no perfect profile. Just the things that make you, you.

  1. Your profile

    Put your personality first.

    Choose photos that feel like you. Answer a few prompts in your own words, like what you're hoping to find. Everyone verifies their identity with a NIN or driver's licence before they're shown to anyone.

  2. Your curiosity

    Notice a little in common.

    Find someone in Discover, and like the photo or answer that caught your eye.

  3. Your first hello

    Make a thoughtful first move.

    Send a like, start a conversation when you connect, and give a good hello room to grow. Once you match, Share My Date lets you send someone you trust a link saying where you'll be.

A real connection starts with a real you.

Take your time. Be curious. Let the conversation do the rest.

Create your profile